You Don't Have an Opinion.You Have an Algorithm.
- Sharise Erby
- Aug 2
- 3 min read

"The greatest threat to your future isn't artificial intelligence. It's outsourced thinking."
Before you disagree with that statement, pause for a moment.
Ask yourself this question:
When was the last time you changed your mind about something important?
Not because someone embarrassed you. Not because the evidence became overwhelming.But because you genuinely sought out a perspective different from your own.
If you're like most people—including me—that question is harder to answer than it should be.
We live in the most connected era in human history, yet many of us consume the same ideas over and over again.
Our social media feeds know what makes us laugh. They know what makes us angry.They know which headlines will keep us scrolling. The algorithm has become exceptionally good at giving us more of what we already believe.
And that's dangerous. Not because technology is bad. But because growth has never happened inside an echo chamber.
The Comfort Trap
We often say we want growth.
What we usually mean is we want confirmation.
We say we want to learn.
What we often want is validation.
There's a difference.
Real learning is uncomfortable.
It asks us to wrestle with ideas we don't immediately agree with.
It requires humility.
It forces us to admit that we don't know everything.
The strongest leaders I've met aren't the people with all the answers.
They're the people willing to ask better questions.
Curiosity Is Becoming a Competitive Advantage
Think about the people who consistently innovate. They aren't always the smartest person in the room. They're usually the most curious. Curious people don't assume.
They investigate.
They listen before they respond.
They ask, "What am I missing?"
In a world where everyone is rushing to have an opinion, curiosity has become surprisingly rare.
And rare things become valuable.
Your Feed Is Training Your Mind
Every swipe teaches the algorithm something.
But every swipe teaches you something too.
It teaches your brain what deserves your attention.
What deserves your outrage.
What deserves your empathy.
What deserves your time.
Eventually, your digital habits become mental habits.
You stop asking questions because you've already seen enough content to feel like you know the answer.
The problem?
Information isn't the same thing as understanding.
The Lost Skill
We've become incredible at consuming information.
We're becoming less practiced at contemplation.
There's a difference between reading five articles and sitting quietly with one idea long enough for it to change you. We celebrate speed. Wisdom has always preferred stillness.
An Experiment
This week, try something radical.
Read something written by someone you respectfully disagree with.
Attend an event outside your normal circles.
Ask a teenager what they think.
Ask someone in their eighties what they've learned.
Read a book instead of a thread.
Leave your headphones out during a walk.
Notice what happens.
Not because you're trying to prove yourself wrong. Because you're trying to become more complete.
The Future Belongs to Independent Thinkers
Artificial intelligence will continue to grow more powerful.
Algorithms will continue to become more persuasive.
Technology isn't slowing down.
Neither should our commitment to thinking for ourselves. The people who will lead well in the future won't simply be those with the fastest access to information. They'll be the ones who can separate information from wisdom. Noise from truth. Reaction from reflection.
So before you post your next opinion...
Ask yourself one question.
Did I arrive at this conclusion?
Or was I delivered to it?
That may be one of the most important leadership questions of our generation.
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Question for you: What's one belief you've changed your mind about in the last five years and what caused that change?
I'd genuinely love to hear your story.



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